My wee one is about the turn three, and with this passage of time I feel a twinge of sorrow. To me the third birthday means they are longer babies. Its the first birthday that they have that I'm not longer changing their diapers so they aren't babies. J was clearly not a baby on his third birthday because he had a two month old baby sister. While Nan, she is still our baby, because no one has replaced her but yet she isn't because she isn't diapers. Its all so confusing to my mind. But yet the Lord must know what he is doing. So if she is still the youngest in the family at her third birthday then it must be ok.