Tuesday, December 30, 2014
I always get a kick about reminiscing about right before we got married. Noon, on December 30th, 2004, sitting on a white couch with him dressed in white with yellow badges silently giggling together, probably giggling not as silently as we were trying to be.
If I was a pioneer I think people would have said, oh sad, the bloom of life went out of her quick. I feel like I've age a ton in ten years. My hair is dry and brittle, my eyes have deep circles under them, I'm always exhausted and I've spent way too many months for comfort depressed in the last 10 years. Luckily my husband doesn't see any of that.
Last little side note, I don't really enjoy the movie Frozen, it seems like it has 20 minutes of plot expanded for an hour and half. I think the scenery in the background is a bit flat. I could probably look past all of that, if it wasn't for my utter hatred of the rock people and every scene they are in, but I do kind like Frozen. Only because all the gear reminds me of my wedding. Every time I see the blue snowflakes everywhere, I think oh how sweet every little girl wants to celebrate my wedding. I can't blame them, my marriage is the best out of there.
Here are some shots of my super trendy wedding because the trend was set.
Thursday, December 18, 2014
Thursday, December 11, 2014
This morning I brought the broom out to sweep, and then had to take care of something else before I could finish. My two year old took over for me, it was very sweet of him. He picked up quite a few things in the dust pan, judging on the amount of trips to the trash.
Sure I had to finish the job later, but I appreciated his enthusiasm since my older two kids always complain or cry when they have to sweep.
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Monday, December 8, 2014
Then we talked about the them. It made me feel good he was surprised at how little I bought.
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Snowman jammies and christmas tree
Saturday, November 29, 2014
Saturday, November 22, 2014
Saturday, November 15, 2014
46 O my son, do not let us be slothful because of the easiness of the way; for so was it with our fathers; for so was it prepared for them, that if they would look they might live; even so it is with us. The way is prepared, and if we will look we may live forever.
Alma 37 is one of my favorite chapters. I thought this verse was a good reminder.
Thursday, November 13, 2014
Monday, November 10, 2014
He was also prone to ear infections, so whenever he messes with his ears I rub it below his ears.
I rub the oil mixed with coconut on the bottom of his feet and he doesn't get stinky feet. I put some of the essential oil in his shoes and the smell went away. His feet were getting so stinky that after ONLY ONE DAY his shoes would reak! SO SO stinky, it was awful, now he is totally a normal kid!
I love it for him, and he loves it. When he sees me using essential oil he demands to get some on him. He will bring me cotton balls to put oil on and then he will walk around for about 10-20 minutes with his cotton ball enjoying the aroma.
As I continued to read Deliverance is also good for gingivitis. Mr A, does not have gingivitis but he had some intense plaque issues. We did everything we could think of to help him, but he still just had so much plaque. Once or twice I diluted on his tooth brush. The problem is almost completely gone. Although it does taste gross and he doesn't like it in his mouth. Sure he still has an aggressive oral health routine, but before it wasn't getting better, we were just keeping it at bay, and now its so improved. Mind you I put it on his neck multiple times a week, so I figure he is still getting benefits of it in his mouth.
Now, if any of my kids wake up with a hoarse voice or complain of any cold like symptoms the first thing I do is rub deliverance on them. No one was been sick since July, that may sound silly because who gets sick during the summer but we were sick the whole beginning part of the summer, and spring and end of winter. Plus we started back to school with no cold like symptoms, no runny nose, no nothing, and I've known a lot of people who have gotten some nasty viruses the last two months. I rub it on everyone's neck except for the baby I put it on the top of his head.
I originally wrote this a month ago and forgot to post it. Nat got strep a few weeks ago, but no one else got it. And currently Ikey has a running nose, but those are the only sicknesses we've had in months!
Sunday, November 9, 2014
My mom got me using Butterfly Express essential oils. http://butterflyexpress.net/
I started using Baby Me.
I disgruntly also let my mom buy me the ebook of Butterfly Miracles with Essential Oil. I didn't want it because I really wasn't planning to get into essential oils. But I started scanning it for information. Baby Me blend incidentally was the oil my brother was suggesting for my colicy infant. He was right my baby is way happier and less fussy when I rub it on the soles of his feet. Instead of crying himself to sleep he just cuddles down and sleeps.
There are multiple ways you can "wear" Baby Me, I started with my inner ankles. Whenever I get hormonal my inner ankles ache up the wazoo. Depending on how bad my hormones are the ache goes from ache to utter pain. Postpartum depression made the pain very intense. If you have ever looked into reflexology, you may know that inner ankles is the pressure point for reproductive organs.
As I looked into Baby Me oil more turns out my anti-depressant oil was also good for "increase skin elasticity, retard wrinkles, enhance skin tone and remove scaly patches" How did they know? My upper arms this summer totally went like old, dry, old lady skin. The essential oil mixed with coco butter made my skin super nice. There is a fair chance Butterfly Express does not condone cocoa butter as a carrier oil but its one my favorites, I use the unscented kind. Did you cocoa butter adds fragrance to their lotion? I've read the ingredients they do!
Then I realized, "Baby Me is wonderful for skin conditioning and makes an excellent aftershave for sensitive skin" Perfect, I have terribly sensitive skin and shaving my legs can cause me to break out in hives. Now some would take this as a reason to not shave, but I'm much to prissy for such thing. Its really been a great essential oil for my beyond dry skin.
Back in May when my mom sent me essential oil for my sick sick baby, she also sent me some for muscle pain. I didn't use it at the time, but I pulled it out when Baby Me was working as such an effective anti-depressant. Over the summer I was getting wicked headaches that would last for days. OTC painkillers barely touched the pain. They made it possible for me to be functional but just barely and I still was in lots of pain. Turns out unexplained aches and pains is a symptom of depression. I didn't know this until this summer. The essential oil I already had was Deeper. Since OTC headache medicine wasn't working, I started using Deeper on my temples. Within minutes the headache subsided, I used Deeper regularly on my temples and along my cranial ridge for weeks. Luckily I loved the minty smell. I was actually sad when I didn't need anymore because I loved the smell so much. I now use it on my postpartum carpal tunnel.
Thursday, November 6, 2014
I've always said my oldest is the reason I get out of bed in the morning. Ever since saw his little body on my first ultrasound anytime I've been depressed I've willed myself out of bed to take care of my child.
I had prenatal depression when I was pregnant with him and stayed in bed for at least three weeks if not more. Ironically enough he is the only baby I didn't get postpartum depression with.
My daughter, is my miracle baby. For so many reasons...
As Pinterest says, anytime I need a miracle. I look into my daughter's eyes and realized I've already have one.
My third, he is the baby I always wanted. I waited so long for that baby. He was such an easy happy baby.
My fourth, I'm still coming up with that...
My fourth baby completes us.
He completes the chaos.